The story behind our daughter's name
What's in a name?
Nadia's requirements vs Sherwin's requirements
Deep personal connection and meaning
Rare or unusual name (not in top 1,000 US)
Weave in some aspect of Sherwin's Zen practice / spiritual tradition
Include aspects of climbing, mountains, nature
Reference dual Chinese and Indonesian heritage
Include values and qualities that we'd hope to impart to our daughter
Have some connection between Chinese name and English name
Have a Chinese name derived from a poem, classic text, or 成语
Option to have a nickname
Not fit into the "two syllable girl-name ending in -a or -ia" trend
Name that starts near beginning of alphabet
Chinese name has phonetic translation to English name
Reference baby's development codename (Yammy)
Chinese initials look cool (e.g. Sherwin is YXY and Glenna is YXZ)
Name is gender neutral
What's in a name?
Nadia's requirements vs Sherwin's requirements
Multiple spreadsheets, point allocation exercises, conversations AIs and parents, deep etymology rabbit holes
Sherwin has a dream that Nadia wants to name the baby after a yam; the codename sticks
Realize we spent the last 6 months calling her Yammy and the comes in baby comes two weeks, and our "shortlist" has 15 names on it
Original estimate: Oct 7 2025
Actual ship date: Oct 11 2025
4 days late
Scrambling to come up with a name before they kicked us out of the hospital
Finally got around to making this Gamma!
"Thus," "so," "like that" — expresses a state of being so, in such a way, or correctness / naturalness.
Captures a sense of things arising inherently, without force
Strong Taoist and Zen connotations of "effortless effort", "natural order"
literally, wild, untamed, suggesting the primordial vitality of a free spirit, with a strong connection to the natural world
Burning passion
Forest and nature
Phonetic adjacency: Ranya ⇛ Aranya (forest in Sanskrit)
Arden is long associated with forests
Overcoming the arduous
Masculine / gen overtones

野火烧不尽,春风吹又生。
Prairie wildfires burn endlessly
yet spring winds bring [the grass] new life.
On the surface, Bai Juyi penned a poem about the cycle of grass and its wondrous vitality: withering and flourishing year after year, always regrowing after wildfires
The second couplet, shown above, is synonymous with resilience in Chinese culture
The subject of the poem's resilience is the grass; on the other hand the character from our name, 野 (wild), refers to the the adversity: the wildfires.
But taken in context of the whole name, 然 suggests a naturalness, ease, and serenity with which to meet the adversity of 野

A Zen teaching emerges:
In choosing this name, we hope Arden will embrace life's challenges not as external forces to overcome, but as integral parts of her growth—meeting adversity with the natural grace of 然 and the wild vitality of 野

Arden @ Arden

Yammy + Yam
離離原上草 (lí lí yuán shàng cǎo) Lush and thick, grass on the ancient plain
一歲一枯榮 (yī suì yī kū róng) One year withering, one year flourishing
野火燒不盡 (yě huǒ shāo bù jìn) Wildfire burns but cannot exhaust it
春風吹又生 (chūn fēng chuī yòu shēng) Spring wind blows and it lives again
遠芳侵古道 (yuǎn fāng qīn gǔ dào) Distant fragrance encroaches on the ancient road
晴翠接荒城 (qíng cuì jiē huāng chéng) Its emerald green overruns the ruined city
又送王孫去 (yòu sòng wáng sūn qù) Again I bid farewell to my dear friend
萋萋滿別情 (qī qī mǎn bié qíng) I find I'm crowded full of parting's feelings.
The poem's tone is contemplative and tinged with sadness as the speaker reflects on the departure of a noble friend. The grass's ability to regenerate despite adversity serves as a symbolic reminder of the enduring strength and adaptability of life.
Bai Juyi was 16 when he wrote this poem, which he submitted to a scholar's exam. The exam had a fixed topic: Grass.
So on the surface, the poem is about grass:
But then he drops Line 7-8: surprise this poem is actually about impermanence and the human condition







Baby claw machine smoke test

The soothing sounds of pickleball

Attempting to eat Devin

Actually eating apricot

Peak cheeks reached at 6 months, it's been downhill ever since



Crag lunch with mommy

Belaying daddy

Baby claw machine success state
Arden