Arden

Ranya

Rǎn

"Yammy"

Yu




The story behind our daughter's name

Project Timeline

1

Gathering Requirements

What's in a name?

Nadia's requirements vs Sherwin's requirements

2

Scoping and planning


3

Codename "Project Yammy"


4

Panic

5

Delivery



6

Panic, part 2


7

Marketing moment


Phase 1: Gathering Requirements

Nadia's requirements were straightforward




…whereas Sherwin's were not…




Phase 1: Gathering Requirements

Sherwin's Requirements Framework

A Comprehensive Naming Methodology

P0: Critical Requirements

Deep personal connection and meaning

Rare or unusual name (not in top 1,000 US)

P1: High Priority

Weave in some aspect of Sherwin's Zen practice / spiritual tradition

Include aspects of climbing, mountains, nature

Reference dual Chinese and Indonesian heritage

Include values and qualities that we'd hope to impart to our daughter

Have some connection between Chinese name and English name

Have a Chinese name derived from a poem, classic text, or 成语

Option to have a nickname

P2: Nice to have

Not fit into the "two syllable girl-name ending in -a or -ia" trend

Name that starts near beginning of alphabet

Chinese name has phonetic translation to English name

Reference baby's development codename (Yammy)

Chinese initials look cool (e.g. Sherwin is YXY and Glenna is YXZ)

Name is gender neutral

Fast forwarding a few months…

1

Gathering Requirements

What's in a name?

Nadia's requirements vs Sherwin's requirements

2

Scoping and planning

Multiple spreadsheets, point allocation exercises, conversations AIs and parents, deep etymology rabbit holes

3

Codename "Project Yammy"

Sherwin has a dream that Nadia wants to name the baby after a yam; the codename sticks

4

Panic

Realize we spent the last 6 months calling her Yammy and the comes in baby comes two weeks, and our "shortlist" has 15 names on it

5

Delivery

Original estimate: Oct 7 2025

Actual ship date: Oct 11 2025

4 days late

6

Panic, part 2

Scrambling to come up with a name before they kicked us out of the hospital

7

Marketing moment

Finally got around to making this Gamma!

Phase 7: Marketing moment



Introducing…

Arden

Ranya

"Yammy" Yu

First name: Arden

The hedge:

if Ms. Cho becomes deeply unpopular, we also have a

middle name

Middle name: Ranya

Chinese name: 然野 Rǎnyě

Phonetic analog to Ranya

然 rǎn

"Thus," "so," "like that" — expresses a state of being so, in such a way, or correctness / naturalness.

Captures a sense of things arising inherently, without force

Strong Taoist and Zen connotations of "effortless effort", "natural order"

野 yě

literally, wild, untamed, suggesting the primordial vitality of a free spirit, with a strong connection to the natural world





But wait, there's more!




Secondary latent aspects

Semantic and phonetic threads weave the names together

Arden

Burning passion

  • Phonetic adjacency: ArdenArdent (enthusiastic, passionate) has the etymology Latin ardere, 'to burn'
  • 然 rǎn is a homophone to 燃 (fire radical 火 added to the side) means meaning "to burn, to ignite"
  • Sits in contrast with the original name: is natural arising, 燃 is active transformation
  • Suggests intensity, energy, passion

Ranya

Forest and nature

Phonetic adjacency: RanyaAranya (forest in Sanskrit)

Arden is long associated with forests

  • Arduenna Silva "high forest" in ancient Celtic
  • Forest of Arden of Shakespeare's As You Like It
  • Ardennes region in Belgium / France

然野 Rǎnyě

Overcoming the arduous

  • 2nd character, can mean "rough" in addition to "wild" and "untamed"
  • Arden derives from "arduus", steep, challenging, arduous

Masculine / gen overtones

  • 野 (wild) imparts a masculine feel to the name in Chinese
  • Arden is traditionally a male given name


Taken individually,

each latent aspect represents


aspirations and values

we hope to impart



But wait, there's STILL more!





Taken together,

three latent aspects point

to an even deeper

hidden meaning



yě (wild) is the key



references "Grass on the Ancient Plain", a classic Chinese poem by Bai Juyi


火烧不尽,春风吹又生。

Prairie wildfires burn endlessly

yet spring winds bring [the grass] new life.

On the surface, Bai Juyi penned a poem about the cycle of grass and its wondrous vitality: withering and flourishing year after year, always regrowing after wildfires

The second couplet, shown above, is synonymous with resilience in Chinese culture

An inauspicious name?

The subject of the poem's resilience is the grass; on the other hand the character from our name, (wild), refers to the the adversity: the wildfires.

Seemingly an inauspicious name indeed!


But taken in context of the whole name, suggests a naturalness, ease, and serenity with which to meet the adversity of

"I am the fire, and I am the forest."



A Zen teaching emerges:

We are not separate from our perceived obstacles.

In choosing this name, we hope Arden will embrace life's challenges not as external forces to overcome, but as integral parts of her growth—meeting adversity with the natural grace of and the wild vitality of

Appendix 1: Architecture Diagram

Arden

Ranya

Phonetic analog

wild, untamed, rough

然 Rǎn

Forest

Cultural associations

Phonetic adjacency via sanskrit, aranya

Fire, burning

etymology (arduus, celtic)

Yammy
Codename

Phonetic adjacency 然 => 燃

Phonetic adjacency, arden => ardent (fire, burning)

mountainous, steep, arduous

Wonder and respect for the natural world

resilience in the face of adversity

Ardor, passion, and caring

East asian Mountain Yam
Dioscorea japonica
(野山藥 "wild mountain yam")

Phonetic suggestion

Phonetic suggestion

Naturally arising, effortlessness

然野 Rǎnyě

Baijuyi's Poem "Grass on the Ancient Pain"

賦得古原草送別

野火烧不尽

Prairie wildfires burn endlessly,

春风吹又生

yet spring winds bring the grass new life. 

Superficially, about the miraculous vitality grass; deeper meanings of resilience, acceptance, and nonduality

野 yě

Appendix 2: Namesakes

Arden @ Arden

Yammy + Yam

Appendix 3: Why is our codename Yammy?

1

Nadia likes yams


2

Sherwin dreamt that Nadia wanted to name baby after yam


3

Thus, Yammy


Appendix 4: The story behind the poem

An aside about Bai Juyi's Farewell on the Ancient Plain

離離原上草 (lí lí yuán shàng cǎo) Lush and thick, grass on the ancient plain

一歲一枯榮 (yī suì yī kū róng) One year withering, one year flourishing

野火燒不盡 (yě huǒ shāo bù jìn) Wildfire burns but cannot exhaust it

春風吹又生 (chūn fēng chuī yòu shēng) Spring wind blows and it lives again

遠芳侵古道 (yuǎn fāng qīn gǔ dào) Distant fragrance encroaches on the ancient road

晴翠接荒城 (qíng cuì jiē huāng chéng) Its emerald green overruns the ruined city

又送王孫去 (yòu sòng wáng sūn qù) Again I bid farewell to my dear friend

萋萋滿別情 (qī qī mǎn bié qíng) I find I'm crowded full of parting's feelings.


The poem's tone is contemplative and tinged with sadness as the speaker reflects on the departure of a noble friend. The grass's ability to regenerate despite adversity serves as a symbolic reminder of the enduring strength and adaptability of life.

Bai Juyi was 16 when he wrote this poem, which he submitted to a scholar's exam. The exam had a fixed topic: Grass.

So on the surface, the poem is about grass:

  • Lines 1-4: grass in nature
  • Lines 5-6: grass interacting with human society.

But then he drops Line 7-8: surprise this poem is actually about impermanence and the human condition

Appendix 5: More photos

Appendix 6: Nine month retrospective

Baby claw machine smoke test

The soothing sounds of pickleball

Attempting to eat Devin

Actually eating apricot

Peak cheeks reached at 6 months, it's been downhill ever since



Crag lunch with mommy

Belaying daddy

Baby claw machine success state